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Do you really know your online friends?

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Do you really know your online friends?

SUPER: THIS IS BASED ON A TRUE STORY. IT’S A TRANSCRIPT OF AN ONLINE PREDATOR GROOMING A 14‐YEAR OLD.

WARNING: Contains adult themes.

We open on an extreme close‐up of a mobile phone screen. We see a chat between an online predator and a young girl. The online predator builds familiarity and a relationship with the intended victim. It’s all leading to him getting a compromising picture.

JAKESTEVENS03: Hey wyd?

SARAHMAY_05: Hey not much just hanging out at home Hbu?

JAKESTEVENS03: Laying on the couch watching a movie You're Tom’s friend right?

SARAHMAY_05: Yeah how do you know him?

JAKESTEVENS03: From school Wyd now?

SARAHMAY_05: Just got home from my friends place So tired (tired emoji or tired dog gif)

JAKESTEVENS03: Haha big day I know the feeling Time for bed?

SARAHMAY_05: Yeah soon We can keep chatting if you want but

SUPER: ONE WEEK LATER

JAKESTEVENS03: Heyyy do you have Instagram?

SARAHMAY_05: Yeah it’s @sarahmaym05

JAKESTEVENS03: One sec I’ll follow you You’re so pretty!

SARAHMAY_05: Hah no What do you look like though? Send me a pic maybe I know you

JAKESTEVENS03: (He sends good looking pic of 15‐year old boy)

SARAHMAY_05: I would definitely remember you ahaha

JAKESTEVENS03: Haha now send me one of you

SARAHMAY_05: Hold on one sec (she sends through a headshot/selfie, cut off at the side so you can’t recognise her, landscape image)

JAKESTEVENS03: So cute (drooling emoji)

SARAHMAY_05: Ahaha maybe you’ll get another soon

SARAHMAY_05: Hey you still there?

SARAHMAY_05: Hellooooo J

AKESTEVENS03: Sorry just making you my phone screen

SARAHMAY_05: Haha you’re sweet

JAKESTEVENS03: Are you a model?

SARAHMAY_05: I look awful ahaha

JAKESTEVENS03: Don’t worry you’re hot

SARAHMAY_05: Naw thanks

SUPER: TWO WEEKS LATER

JAKESTEVENS03: Hey send us a pic Need to see more of you

SARAHMAY_05: Aww wish we could just meet up

JAKESTEVENS03: Me too I wanna see you so bad Just took this thinking about you (he sends ripped ab torso shot – it’s pixelated at the bottom)

SARAHMAY_05: Omg did not expect that

JAKESTEVENS03: Sorry baby it’s just what you do to me Pleeeease send a hot pic of you

SARAHMAY_05: I don’t even know you… (deletes) Umm… I don’t know my friend Nicky sent something to her bf and he showed everyone!!!

JAKESTEVENS03: Promise it’s just for me Pleeease you’re so hot just one pic

SARAHMAY_05: I don’t know…

JAKESTEVENS03: Please baby you can trust me it’s just one pic

SARAHMAY_05: Okay fine Gotta be quick mums on my case *camera sound*

In response to his last request, we see the little animated graphic that displays when an image is uploading. We can tell the girl is sending a picture – and see the briefest flash of the image. At that moment, the camera pulls back revealing the phone is a beartrap.

Suddenly we hear a loud snap and cut to a black screen with white supers. First the words GOT YOU flash up on screen, then the remaining super fade on around it.

SUPER:

THE MOMENT YOU SHARE A SEXUAL PICTURE, AN ONLINE PREDATOR HAS GOT YOU.

YOU AND YOUR FRIENDS CAN AVOID THE TRAPS. FIND OUT HOW. (QFCC.QLD.GOV.AU/DOIKNOWU)

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Warning: Video contains adult themes. Parental guidance recommended.

Online predators pretend to be your friend and then trap you into doing things you don't want to do.

Online predators pretend to be your friend and then trap you into doing things you don't want to do.

You and your friends can avoid the traps and stay safe online by:

  • knowing someone in real life before accepting their friend request
  • limiting how much personal information you share online
  • telling them to slow down or block and delete if you feel uncomfortable
  • knowing it's illegal to create, send, or have sexual images of someone (including yourself) who looks under 18 years. Find out more.

If you're worried that you've sent a sexual image of yourself to someone, you're not alone.

There are lots of people who can help you. There are some simple steps you can take if you've sent a sexual image. And there are ways you can anonymously report predators.

People you can talk to:

What to do if you've sent a sexual image:

Where you can report someone; you can even do it anonymously: